Monday 24 May 2010

Stay at Home Moms Vs. Working Mom

Sometimes it seems as if staying at home and working VAT. VAT is fighting against each other. The truth is that there are plenty of women who stay home with their children, and there are some mothers who work. The second truth is that one of them is not better than the other. Like VAT, we all love our kids and we all want them to be happy. There are many pros and cons for both to stay home and work outside the home.

To stay home with your kids is great because you are able to be with them all day. You are able to bond more with your kids and instill more of your values and what you feel is important in your children. It also gives you a fantastic feeling to be with your kids all the time. But can stay home with your children also make them more dependent on you than most other children are with their mothers. It can make them afraid leaves you, whether you leave them at school, or babysitter for a night off. The disadvantages that you will guard all the time. It can make you feel like you want to tear your hair out! Even if you have one of the toughest jobs, you actually do not involve an income. Even today, many mothers are working via the internet or with home businesses.

Mothers who work outside the home get their chance to be different than 'mom'. They can concentrate on what they are trying to do much better than a mother who works at home. The only "children" they have in their hair are the ones they work with! Furthermore, stay away from your children more foster a greater sense of independence in them. Drawbacks to work outside the home are obvious. You do not get much time to spend with your children, and this can make you feel guilty or remiss. Also, you should know that whoever may be your children's caretakers will have an impact on what your children grow to believe.

Whether we work outside the home, or stay home with our children, we are all mothers. We all want the same things for our children. Happiness, opportunities, and we want to give them everything we can. Being a mom is hard enough today. We need to stick together as mothers, whatever kind of mom we are. Support each other in motherhood and in life is what is important. Support each other's decisions and be proud of the decision you have made. Let us end the war!

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